DEFINING MOMENTS


We All Have Them!!!

 Defining Moments…

 This definitely rated some extra space.  We all need to get a grip on what OUR defining moments are.  Little things that we say and do, this makes us who we are.  No one can change these things about us.  We are all poets, writers and dreamers.  We just need to find it within ourselves and let it flow.

 DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

It can be someone you know.  She can be your sister, cousin, best friend.  Would you know if she passed you on the street?Maybe.  Maybe not. 

Here are a few definitions concerning violence:  These are Webster’s II and not mine.

 Abuse:  1.  To use improperly:  Misuse.  2.  To harm or injure by maltreatment.  3.  To assail with insults:  revile.

 Violence:  1.  Physical force employed so as to damage or injure.  2.  An instance of violent action.  3.  Intensity.  4.  Damage or abuse, as to meaning or content.  5.  Fevor:  vehemence.

Can you imagine doing this to someone you claim you love.  Most people would say NO without even having to think about it.  That is called Domestic Violence.  Do you know anyone affected by this?  They need to get out!  Get help!  Talk to someone!  Do it now!

You can be a survivor of Domestic Violence and not a statistic. 

There are a lot of people who have been there and are willing to help.  Please seek outside help.  There are agencies.  There are safe houses available.  Please remember, your children depend on you.  If you can’t find the strength to do it for yourself please do it for your children.

For Immediate Assistance:

National Domestic Violence Hotline:

1-800-733-SAFE (7233) or

1-800-787-3224 (TTY)

National Center for Victims of Crime:

1-800-394-2255

 We need to speak out against Domestic Violence!

I Got Flowers Today...  Author Unknown
 
We had our first argument last night, and he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.  I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said, because he sent me flowers today.  I got flowers today.  It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day.
 
Last night he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.  It seemed like a nightmare, I couldn't believe it was real.  I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.  I know he must be sorry cause he sent me flowers today.
 
I got flowers today, and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day.  Last night, he beat me up again, it was much worse than all the other times.  If I leave him, what will I do?  How will I take care of my kids?  What about money?  I'm afraid of him and scared  to leave.  But I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.
 
I got flowers today.  Today was a very special day.  It was the day of my funeral.  Last night, he finally killed me.  He beat me to death.  If only I had gathered enough courage to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers today...
 
Domestic Abuse.  Some people will look at this and simply not believe it...  Other people will look at this and get shivers up their spine...  However you look at it if this is you, get out now!  Do not wait for tomorrow because as you can see, tomorrow never came for her.